I been thinking about this post for a couple days now but somehow I can't seem to be able to write it the way it feels in my heart, at the beginning my idea was to just let my heart out and complain about my life and everything that happened last week but then it came to me that I am not that only human in this earth so I am obviously not the only one having a shitty week am I right? and at the moment it hit me that I didn't wanted to be another damn negative person that brings people down. But you know what I am a very negative person I don't want to be one, but man, sometimes it's hard to stay up bit when you are home alone with three year old twins all the time and you can't take them outside to play because it doesn't stop snowing and it's freezing outside see here I go with my negativity, so let's stop.
You see last week was one for the books, I'm not going to give you the details to not bored you, but it was so bad and I was such a mess that I cried Friday when my sewing machine broke down (yes, real tears) I mean that sewing machine had been with me for the last 8 years c'mon we did three fashion shows together but oh well she is dead now and like my husband told me that same Friday night instead of thinking about how bad it is that it broke down why don't you start looking for the new machine you want because we are going to buy you a new one an awesome one that one that has all the stitches you need (Why does he always says the right things?) my man really knows that way to my heart.
Saturday morning I got up with kids I made my coffee and I look through the window and it was snowing, yes more snow! so I laughed and then I sat down in the couch with my kids to watch cartoons.
My weekend was everything that my week was not, it was relaxing, fun, with lots of delicious food, with a lot of cuddles it was very low key we didn't got out of the house more than twice one to work and another one to get bagels it was the perfect reminder for me that we have a beautiful family, that I really don't have anything to complain about, I'm the mother of two little ones and so I cannot afford to ruin everything with my negativity, my monsters need me, Amner needs me and I need to be better for them.
Sunday morning I wrote a list I tittled it "10 ways to defend myself against negativity" is on the front page of my planner as a reminder so I don't fall off the positive wagon again. I will share it with you here just in case, maybe one day you will need it too!
- Don't take other's people negativity personal.
- Spend more time with positive people.
- Be the positivity you want to see in the world.
- Change the way you think.
- FOCUS ON SOLUTIONS.
- Love whoever is around to be loved.
- Provide support to whoever needs it.
- Realize that life is a serious of ups and downs
- Concentrate in TODAY.
- Let go and move on when you must.
Lots of love and positive vibes from me to you!
BESOS!!!
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